Thoughts from a Therapist

Helpful tips on How to Expand your Personal and Relational Wellness

  • Come to Carry us Home (music)

    Quick summary: This is a song I wrote in 2010 as I sat in a rocking chair nervously waiting for the first phone call from my biological parents. The song is about the confusion surrounding identity that results from one’s (my) contemplation about adoption. The first section is the emotional roller-coaster and the second is…

  • Parenting Teens with Diabetes

    Quick Summary: I will offer two super easy techniques that I use in family therapy to assist a family in structuring itself to best meet the diabetes management needs of a teen. My wife is a senior research coordinator for diabetes and because of such I chose to specialize in assisting families who have a…

  • Stopping unwanted thoughts and daydreams

      Quick summary: you have quite a large degree of control over where you keep your attention but often there is an exceedingly appealing reward for keeping our attention on the thoughts and imaginary scenarios, which are the source of our dis-ease and stress. The other day in Colorado I had three hours to myself…

  • Feedback loop in a Couples interaction

    Quick summary: In a Couples interaction there tend to be dynamics that are reoccurring which spiral out of control and lead to a vicious cycle in which resolution in highly unlikely. I will offer a tool to be used by a therapist to help a couple in isolating and reflecting upon their cycle. Once the…

  • Boy of the Fall (music post)

    Quick Summary: This is a song that I wrote originally in 2002ish – but reworked in 2008ish. Music is my means of re-centering… generally I start with a poem and add instrumentation. This song concerns many topics and hovers around the double binds inherent in the choices me make. Fall is the season of my…

  • What is a mentally healthy person? Characteristics of an emotionally, spiritually, and socially intelligent person.

    The purpose of this post is to give a list of the variables that I believe impact a person’s mental health. As a therapist, I help people to augment their abilities in the below attributes. Therapy is very often thought of a means of intervening to assist people who have significant mental health concerns… I…

  • Is Depression the Result of Self-Centeredness?

    In this post I will be laying out a hypothesis for how the US’s value of freedom and individualism may be affecting our national depression rates.

  • Feelings are important in growing consciousness – Existential and Mindfulness Based Emotional Reflection Therapy

    Accepting your emotional reality and holding an awareness of those feelings helps us to be conscious of how we are currently being influenced … understanding this influence opens up the possibility to use reflection to guide your actions towards your best interests and towards the most ideal interaction patterns.

William Bishop, LPC, LMFT, AAMFT Approved Supervisor

“Greetings! I am an Online Psychotherapist, Coach, Supervisor, and Consultant based in Steamboat Springs, Colorado. In addition to running a private practice, I write a blog offering free insights on relationships, philosophy, wellness, spirituality, and the deeper questions of life. My goal is to provide meaningful support to anyone seeking clarity, growth, and connection.

If you’re interested in online therapy, coaching, supervision, or consultation, I invite you to visit SteamboatSpringsTherapy.com. There, you can learn more about my services and how we can work together. Whether you’re looking for practical guidance or deeper transformation, I look forward to connecting with you.”

Psychotherapy Blog

Thoughts from a Therapist: A Home for Depth-Oriented Psychology, Mindful Insight, and Practical Growth

At Thoughts from a Therapist, we explore the intersection of emotional intelligence, psychological theory, and human experience. This space serves as a resource for clinicians, seekers, and reflective minds drawn to insights that are both practical and profound.

Each post is grounded in lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and a dialectical approach to personal and collective growth. Below is an index of the therapeutic frameworks we regularly explore—each defined succinctly and linked to in-depth discussions.


At Thoughts from a Therapist, we delve into various psychotherapy theories, offering insights grounded in both professional practice and personal reflection. Below is an index of therapeutic frameworks we explore, each accompanied by a succinct definition and a link to a related blog post for deeper exploration:

Emotional and Social Intelligence

Explores the foundations of empathy, attunement, and interpersonal skillfulness as core components of psychological growth.
The Building Blocks of Emotional and Social Intelligence

Relational Therapy

Focuses on the therapeutic relationship as a vehicle for transformation, emphasizing mutuality, authenticity, and emotional presence.
Interventions in Relational Counseling

Attachment Theory

Explores how early relational experiences shape emotional bonds and self-regulation in adulthood.
When Attachment Theory and Existentialism Compete

Polyvagal Theory

Explores how the autonomic nervous system influences emotional regulation and social connection.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Identifies and harmonizes sub-personalities or “parts” within the individual to achieve internal balance.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Somatic Experiencing

Focuses on bodily sensations to process and heal trauma.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Addresses the interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to modify patterns that contribute to distress.
The Thoughts, Emotions, And Behaviors Triangle

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Combines acceptance and change strategies to enhance emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness.
Harmful Interaction Patterns – which do you do and what can help?

Narrative Therapy

Focuses on the stories we tell about ourselves and how reframing those narratives can foster agency and meaning.
Narrative Therapy Summary

Psychodynamic Therapy

Explores unconscious processes and past experiences to understand current behavior.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Existential Psychotherapy

Engages with core human concerns such as freedom, mortality, responsibility, and authenticity.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Centers on the importance of emotional bonds and attachment in relationships, aiming to create secure connections.
Attachment – Why We Say and Emote One Way When We Truly Feel and Think a Different Way

Compassion-Focused Therapy

Encourages self-kindness and addresses shame and self-criticism to promote mental well-being.
Compassionately Assertive – Maintaining Boundaries without Violating Others

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

Utilizes mindfulness meditation to reduce stress and enhance well-being.
The Evolution of CBT = Mindfulness

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Encourages accepting thoughts and feelings rather than fighting them, and committing to actions aligned with personal values.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy

Integrates body-centered interventions into psychotherapy to address trauma and attachment issues.
Attunement Exercise

Transpersonal Psychology

Examines the spiritual dimensions of human experience and the journey toward self-transcendence.
The Observer Self and the Analyst

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB)

Examines how relationships and the brain interact to shape our experiences.
Attunement Exercise

Humanistic Therapy

Emphasizes personal growth and self-actualization, focusing on the individual’s inherent potential.
Rogerian (or Person Centered) Therapy Summary

Solution-Focused Therapy

Concentrates on finding solutions in the present time and exploring hope for the future.
Solution Focused Therapy Simplified

Buddhist Psychology

Draws from contemplative traditions to integrate mindfulness, compassion, and non-attachment into therapeutic awareness.
The Evolution of CBT = Mindfulness

PACT (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy)

Integrates attachment theory, neurobiology, and arousal regulation to help partners build secure-functioning relationships.
Attachment – Why We Say and Emote One Way When We Truly Feel and Think a Different Way

Gottman Approach

Focuses on enhancing intimacy, managing conflict, and strengthening friendship in relationships through research-backed methods.
Interventions in Relational Counseling

Parts Work

Engages with internal sub-personalities or emotional roles to foster self-leadership and integration.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Trauma-Informed Practice

Prioritizes emotional safety, autonomy, and trustworthiness in therapeutic engagement, particularly for survivors of trauma.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Executive Coaching

Blends psychological insight with leadership development, helping individuals align professional performance with personal integrity.
The Dialectic of Courage

Psychoeducation

Supports client understanding by translating psychological concepts into accessible tools for self-awareness and change.
The Thoughts, Emotions, And Behaviors Triangle

These models are presented as avenues for exploration—perspectives that expand our understanding of the human experience. Some discussions are theoretical, while others are more applied, collectively contributing to a deeper comprehension of personal growth and healing.