Thoughts from a Therapist

Helpful tips on How to Expand your Personal and Relational Wellness

  • Fear, Competence, Values and Anger in Parenting Rambunctious Children

    This post will investigate how our perceived parenting competence impacts our fear and resulting emotional and behavioral reactions. We will focus on how fear can lead us into parenting interventions that are not consistent with our parenting values. I was offering a parenting coaching intervention in a couples context the other week and I arrived…

  • When Attachment Theory and Existentialism Compete

    In this post I will be investigating the relationships between one’s core sense of purpose in life (existentialism) and contrasting that with the most basic needs associated with human bonding (attachment theory). The question that I am playing around with is: “Are there some people who have a life purpose which is incongruent with maintaining…

  • Parenting Paradigm | a level system to conceptualize parenting strategies

    I was in a couples therapy session guiding an enactment surrounding an argument the couple had surrounding a parenting issue over the weekend. Both parties were having a difficult time understanding (cognitively) the other person’s position – though all my work focuses on maintaining connection through encouraging emotional openness, it was clear in this instance…

  • Happy Relationship – loving another as yourself – loving we to love me

    A relationship is a system… it is a whole with interconnecting parts – and the whole ends up being greater than the sum of its’ parts so lets think about this is a ‘couple’ context – you and your romantic partner (though yes this could apply to any relational system) what are some of the…

  • The Depression Bubble

    The Depression Bubble – a metaphor for understanding a loved-one’s depression – and compassion and suggestions for the healer… Depression can be like a bubble blocking the person inside from receiving positive influence from the outside world. Inside the depression bubble the person is left to deal with their hopelessness, apathy, sadness, meaninglessness, lethargy and…

  • Early Childhood Questions to Promote Bonding

    I compiled the below questions to be used in an adult couple relationship to help facilitate bonding. When our partners see the depth of our true selves and know the intricacies of our narratives pertaining to our childhood, they are better available to be emotionally helpful. To be known and emotionally held by our partner…

  • Choice is Oppression

    Wow that is a provocative way to start! of course Choice is also liberation and a billion of other things, but in the post I want to shine some light on how individualism has created a blind infatuation with choice – and how ‘choice’ is actually the very source of our oppression. perhaps the single…

  • Accepting, condoning, and boundaries

    How do you accept what you can’t condone? what is it that your are accepting? we love people and we want them to behave in ways which will lead to the permanence of things… permanence of our relationship with them. People behave in ways that can hurt us both by insulting our systems of belief…

William Bishop, LPC, LMFT, AAMFT Approved Supervisor

“Greetings! I am an Online Psychotherapist, Coach, Supervisor, and Consultant based in Steamboat Springs, Colorado. In addition to running a private practice, I write a blog offering free insights on relationships, philosophy, wellness, spirituality, and the deeper questions of life. My goal is to provide meaningful support to anyone seeking clarity, growth, and connection.

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Psychotherapy Blog

Thoughts from a Therapist: A Home for Depth-Oriented Psychology, Mindful Insight, and Practical Growth

At Thoughts from a Therapist, we explore the intersection of emotional intelligence, psychological theory, and human experience. This space serves as a resource for clinicians, seekers, and reflective minds drawn to insights that are both practical and profound.

Each post is grounded in lived experience, trauma-informed practice, and a dialectical approach to personal and collective growth. Below is an index of the therapeutic frameworks we regularly explore—each defined succinctly and linked to in-depth discussions.


At Thoughts from a Therapist, we delve into various psychotherapy theories, offering insights grounded in both professional practice and personal reflection. Below is an index of therapeutic frameworks we explore, each accompanied by a succinct definition and a link to a related blog post for deeper exploration:

Emotional and Social Intelligence

Explores the foundations of empathy, attunement, and interpersonal skillfulness as core components of psychological growth.
The Building Blocks of Social and Emotional Intelligence

Relational Therapy

Focuses on the therapeutic relationship as a vehicle for transformation, emphasizing mutuality, authenticity, and emotional presence.
Interventions in Relational Counseling

Attachment Theory

Explores how early relational experiences shape emotional bonds and self-regulation in adulthood.
When Attachment Theory and Existentialism Compete

Polyvagal Theory

Examines how the autonomic nervous system influences emotional regulation and social connection.
Nervous System Literacy and the Language of Safety

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Identifies and harmonizes sub-personalities or “parts” within the individual to achieve internal balance.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Somatic Experiencing

Focuses on bodily sensations to process and heal trauma.
Solutions and Causes of Anxiety

Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

Addresses the interplay between thoughts, emotions, and behaviors to modify patterns that contribute to distress.
The Thoughts, Emotions, And Behaviors Triangle

Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

Combines acceptance and change strategies to enhance emotional regulation and interpersonal effectiveness.
Harmful Interaction Patterns – which do you do and what can help?

Narrative Therapy

Focuses on the stories we tell about ourselves and how reframing those narratives can foster agency and meaning.
Narrative Therapy Summary

Psychodynamic Therapy

Explores unconscious processes and past experiences to understand current behavior.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Existential Psychotherapy

Engages with core human concerns such as freedom, mortality, responsibility, and authenticity.
Pathologizing, Labels, Dichotomies, Existentialism And Acceptance

Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)

Centers on the importance of emotional bonds and attachment in relationships, aiming to create secure connections.
Attachment – Why We Say and Emote One Way When We Truly Feel and Think a Different Way

Compassion-Focused Therapy

Encourages self-kindness and addresses shame and self-criticism to promote mental well-being.
Compassionately Assertive – Maintaining Boundaries without Violating Others

Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR)

Utilizes mindfulness meditation to reduce stress and enhance well-being.
The Evolution of CBT = Mindfulness

Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT)

Encourages accepting thoughts and feelings rather than fighting them, and committing to actions aligned with personal values.
Acceptance and Commitment Therapy

Sensorimotor Psychotherapy

Integrates body-centered interventions into psychotherapy to address trauma and attachment issues.
Attunement Exercise

Transpersonal Psychology

Explores the spiritual aspects of human experience and the potential for transcendent states of consciousness.
Empathy Building Exercise – Learning To Be Empathetic

Interpersonal Neurobiology (IPNB)

Examines how relationships and the brain interact to shape our experiences.
Attunement Exercise

Humanistic Therapy

Emphasizes personal growth and self-actualization, focusing on the individual’s inherent potential.
Selfishness is also Selfless

Solution-Focused Therapy

Concentrates on finding solutions in the present time and exploring hope for the future.
Solution Focused Therapy Simplified

These models are presented as avenues for exploration—perspectives that expand our understanding of the human experience. Some discussions are theoretical, while others are more applied, collectively contributing to a deeper comprehension of personal growth and healing.